Male or Female What is the Difference
Male vs. Female Cavapoo Puppies: Understanding the Differences
Many families wonder whether they should choose a male or female Cavapoo puppy, and it’s a great question — one that often comes with a lot of myths and mixed opinions. At My Choice Puppy, we’ve helped many families make this choice, and we’ve found that the decision often comes down to personality and lifestyle fit rather than gender alone.
Even my veterinarian and I have discussed how male Cavapoos are sometimes overlooked, even though they can be affectionate, easy-going, and loyal companions. In fact, many families who choose male Cavapoos are thrilled with their decision once they experience how loving and devoted these little dogs can be.
Key Differences Between Male and Female Cavapoos
When deciding between a male or female Cavapoo, it helps to understand their typical behavioral tendencies. While every puppy is unique, here are some general differences and similarities we’ve observed over the years:
Male Cavapoos
Affectionate and Social: Males tend to be outgoing and crave human interaction. They bond quickly with their families and often enjoy cuddling more than females.
Playful Energy: Male Cavapoos are typically a bit more playful and silly during puppyhood, which makes them fun companions for active families and children.
Eager to Please: They are highly responsive to training and love positive reinforcement, often performing commands simply to make their owner happy.
Female Cavapoos
Independent and Intelligent: Female Cavapoos often display a slightly more independent streak. They may prefer affection on their own terms but remain very loving.
Focused During Training: Many owners notice that females seem a bit more mature or focused early on, which can make early training feel smoother.
Emotionally Attuned: Females are highly intuitive and often sensitive to their family’s moods, making them nurturing companions.
Despite these differences, it’s important to remember that both genders share the same sweet Cavapoo temperament — gentle, loyal, and deeply attached to their families.
Behavior, Training, and Early Neutering/Spaying
Cavapoos of both genders are intelligent and highly trainable, thanks to their Poodle parentage. Male puppies might show more exuberance during the first few months, while females may appear slightly calmer. However, both respond beautifully to consistent routines, gentle correction, and reward-based training.
Some owners worry about marking behavior in males or mood changes in females during heat cycles. Fortunately, these differences are greatly minimized with early spaying or neutering — something we recommend and require for all puppies from My Choice Puppy. Once altered, behavioral distinctions between male and female Cavapoos are minimal.
Why Gender Matters Less Than Personality
In our experience, the biggest influence on a Cavapoo’s behavior isn’t gender — it’s upbringing. A puppy’s personality is shaped by its environment, socialization, and how it’s raised during the first year of life.
Families who focus on early training, daily bonding, and consistent structure often find that their puppy — male or female — grows into a calm, affectionate, and loyal companion.
When selecting your Cavapoo puppy, we always recommend focusing on temperament and compatibility rather than gender. Every puppy at My Choice Puppy is lovingly raised in a family setting, so you’ll find both males and females that are well-socialized, affectionate, and ready to become part of your home.
Are There Differences in Trainability Between Male and Female Cavapoos?
When it comes to trainability, both male and female Cavapoos are known for being exceptionally intelligent, eager to learn, and highly motivated to please their owners. This intelligence comes from their Poodle lineage, while their gentle nature is inherited from the Cavalier King Charles Spaniel. The result is a breed that’s among the easiest to train for first-time dog owners and families alike.
While both genders excel in learning commands, there can be slight behavioral nuances during training:
Female Cavapoos may show a bit more independence. They’re intelligent and quick learners, but they sometimes prefer to do things at their own pace. With a little extra patience and consistency, they adapt beautifully and often become excellent listeners once they bond with their family.
Male Cavapoos, on the other hand, are usually more people-oriented and thrive on praise and affection. They tend to respond enthusiastically to positive reinforcement methods like treats, toys, or verbal praise, which makes training fun and engaging for them.
Overall, the differences in trainability between males and females are minimal. What truly determines success is early socialization, consistency, and a positive training environment.
At My Choice Puppy, we begin this process from day one. Our Cavapoo puppies—both male and female—are gently exposed to household sounds, human interaction, and early handling experiences. This early exposure builds confidence, encourages curiosity, and lays the groundwork for easy training once they join their new families.
By the time your Cavapoo leaves for their forever home, they’ll already have a strong foundation for learning, bonding, and adapting to family life.
